The dictionary defines “identity” as the “distinguishing character or personality of an individual.” As part of our Welcoming and Inclusion Initiative, we explore what it means to identify with a certain group or express one’s identity. We’ve learned that it’s complicated and deeply personal. People express their identities in various ways, and while some aspects are visible, a lot remains below the surface, like an iceberg with most of its mass hidden underwater.
In the work of Welcoming and Inclusion, we recognize that people want to connect with others who share similar identities—we want to feel like we fit in and avoid standing out too much, but we also crave recognition—we want to be seen. It is complex and multi-dimensional, but something we can navigate as we work to create a community where everyone feels they belong.
Jewish identity is at the heart of our mission at Federation. We are dedicated to reaching out to those in our community who identify as Jewish or live in Jewish households and who want to be part of our vibrant Jewish community.
Since our last update, we’ve expanded our communication efforts with two new mailing lists for those who want to learn more about LGBTQ+ programming and another for those interested in programs for Interfaith families. Whether you identify as or ally with our LGBTQ+ community, we hope you will join us our efforts to support and celebrate the Jewish LGBTQ+ community here in Greater MetroWest. We’ve seen firsthand there is a need for connection. At a recent LGBTQ+ Pride event, a woman approached us and said, “I’m Jewish and I’m a lesbian, and I’m finding it really hard to find my place these days. I’m so glad you’re here.” We also had others stop by simply to tell us that they, too, are Jewish—a reminder that people want to feel seen.
We’ve also recently launched a new webpage for families and individuals who identify as interfaith, multicultural, multi-heritage, or “Just Jewish.” We understand not every household in our community is made up solely of Jewish individuals, and we want to create spaces where people can connect, share experiences, and explore the complexities of being part of what may not be considered a “typical Jewish family.” Stay tuned for upcoming programming in this space, and in the meantime, explore the new webpage. If you’re interested in participating in a focus group on what it means to be an interfaith/multicultural family in Greater MetroWest, email Sharon Zucker [email protected].
To be clear, the goal isn’t to separate people by their diverse identities but to bring them together, providing the community we all seek. By connecting those who share similar experiences, we hope to find our place in the larger, diverse Greater MetroWest community.